The importance of fathers is increasingly recognised in working with families. The following are 36 ideas that could help services engage fathers.
- Prioritise father inclusive practice in the annual strategic plan
- Ensure support for father inclusion through policy development
- Have an Engaging Father’s Policy
- Provide regular reports to the governing body on the inclusion of fathers
- Actively recruit male staff and volunteers
- Identify a specific individual within the service who will champion father engagement
- Provide training and ongoing professional development regarding fathers for all staff including evidence based approaches to working effectively with families
- Include father-inclusive practices as a core component of relevant Vocational Education and Training, undergrad and postgrad education
- Ensure staff understand the demographics of fathers in the community
- Map the strengths and priorities of local fathers
- Seek the input of fathers into service planning
- Incorporate an action research model of evaluation to refine practice
- Ensure the program environment is aesthetically appealing to men
- Adapt promotion materials and program content to be father friendly
- Try holistic, multi-dimensional programs that are universal
- Provide parenting programs which specifically target or engage fathers
- Look for, and consider changing, any bias towards mothers in service delivery and program development
- Deliver services and programs at hours that support the involvement of men
- Use curiosity and motivational interviewing
- Use a family-relationship perspective which can successfully address some of the key risk factors that affect children’s development and family functioning in diverse family types
- Develop goals beyond getting the father to attend
- Actively recruit fathers
- Inform fathers about services and programs
- Identify strengths of fathers
- Deliberately engage fathers in programs and events
- Focus on specific factors like understanding child development and creating realistic expectations of child or infant behaviour within programs and interventions
- Hold a vision of father’s needs that included his provider role and his relationship with his child
- Assist parents while parents are still together and the child is expected or very young
- Involve fathers despite challenging situations e.g. when parents are in conflict, domestic violence is present, or when the father has been out of contact with the child for some time
- Reach out to separated & incarcerated fathers
- Include custodial mothers in the programs when parents are separated
- Be aware that mothers may block or divert service access to fathers and can also instigate and support father engagement
- Recognise that fathers may be reluctant clients
- Be knowledgeable about local services for fathers and make appropriate referrals
- Critically reflect on practice to ensure fathers are included
- Do postgraduate study relating to fathers e.g. father related courses in the Graduate Certificate and Master of Family Studies at the University of Newcastle (http://www.newcastle.edu.au/research-and-innovation/centre/fac/study-with-us)
These ideas were put together by one of my colleagues at the Family Action Centre, Leanne Schubert, (with some input from Deborah Hartman and me) largely based on a literature review completed by some other colleagues: Richard Fletcher, Chris May, Jennifer St George, Lyn Stoker, and Michele Oshan (2014).
For more details see:
Fletcher, R., May, C., St George, J., Stoker, L., & Oshan, M. (2014). Engaging fathers: evidence review. Canberra: Australian Research Alliance for Children and Youth (ARACY). Available from https://www.aracy.org.au/publications-resources/area?command=record&id=197&cid=6
Commonwealth of Australia. (2009). Fathers inclusive practice. A tool to support the inclusion of fathers in a holistic approach to service delivery. Australian Government Department of Families, Housing, Community Services and Indigenous Affairs. Available from https://www.dss.gov.au/our-responsibilities/families-and-children/publications-articles/father-inclusive-practice-guide
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